It does not have to be one born of fear.
Be well and all follows. Do all that you have to get to were your health and periods, and life are perfect.
Babies – well ones – easy ones – (often too many too close together like your forebears) will follow.
As they it is supposed to be – when life and pregnancy was left alone to unfold by itself.
If you stay ill, and out of balance and hope babies follow you may well not be getting pregnant.
Reproductive medicine will have you believe time is against you – and try to force nature. Reproductive accidents and obstetric mishaps and often great heartbreak may follow.
Being the parent of a massively brain injured and profoundly autistic adult daughter, my heartache I know what you DON’T want. (“But I don’t want to have a damaged baby” – as the argument for scanning and fetal testing (as though it is safe )
Why not start from the best state possible so the baby IS perfect?
BOTH of you become in vibrant health and consciously prepare for making baby – not with the least possible ‘fertile ‘ sperm – but the best?
Come to me and we can find out together as your expectations may well be that once pregnant – all flows.
It very often does not. Fetal testing; not telling anyone till after . .. is all about not starting from the strongest position possible – a set of healthy parents to be.
When the assumption is made that scanning and paying surgeons to oversee the end of the pregnancy – what is lost is the magic if unfolding a miracle – and the falling in love for life (with baby), that is possible with natural and undisturbed birth.