Men who are fertile have babies, and don’t need sperm tests – they get a vasectomy. In your parents’ day (ask them) babies were conceived at any time of the month. . . any age .. sex is to make babies.
If it doesn’t – find out why not and fix it. It takes two to make a baby – if he is fertile (over 80% looking normal – over 100 million at least as the minimum fertile marker 30+ years ago) babies will happen regardless of how ‘old’, how ‘fat’, how few eggs she supposedly has.
Please do not start with the medical process – as this is about life – not their scope of practice.
Fertility is all about health and happiness. Think about it – if she has been on the pill for ages – she has not even been USING her eggs – they are still in suspended hibernation – she just needs to get healthy herself And lose weight … and her midriff fat.
These are great ‘ways out’ for hopeless sperm
How? Start by taking it what should never have been part of your body – not just what is being eaten/drunk but why your body is not in perfect mint condition. Poisons and toxins that are within us . .
Q – Why do you not have 350 million, 95% normal – all rapid swimmers?
As your great grandparents did?
You can do it – get healthy.
- Exercise daily.
- Lose the beer gut.
- Go to bed before 9 pm.
- Start eating proper food.
- Vegetables – lots of them.
- Not a drug company’s apparent male fertility product at great cost from the chemist).
- Do it yourself through changing your eating choices.
- Stop making excuses for your own poor performance in the bedroom.
- Reliable hard and hot apparatus means more likely, abundant great swimmers.
Q – Who knew?
A – Any Traditional East Asian Medical practitioner
(Not the standard medicos – their job is to stop you from dying).
Q – Do the IVF/medicos mention sex?
A – No. Yet this is how babies are made
More of it – hot and steamy (ban the bed as a venue) and in all positions – often.
- She doesn’t feel like it. That is half the problem – get her more juiced up – be more attentive.
- Turn off the electronic gadgets.
- Spend time being with each other.
- Walking after tea.
- Relate. Sharing of yourself – your hopes and dreams.
- Start wooing her again.
- Time to be a couple.
- Start touching for wellness, not making babies.
- Heart singing living. These are all good for gluing a family together.
Q – Have women all of a sudden gotten more fertile to cope with the complete collapse of their men’s fertility?
A – No
I have the women who would be pregnant if HE had the semen quality of his father’s generation. Why is no one seeing that 4 % LOOKING normal sperm is rubbish? That is 96% + BAD . ..It is not good enough for a man with 6% normal sperm to think I am ‘picking on him’ (IVF said he was ‘superstud’) and not return to make his health better so his wife can make babies – of COURSE the IVF team will play with the hopeless sperm samples – that is what they do – they don’t send you away to get in baby shape first. . . this is how money, not babies is made. Perhaps backing up and treating your body as though it were a temple may help?
Clean food, early to bed, no chemicals and plenty of water, not substances full of reproductive toxins – caffeine, alcohol, sugar – may help? Can’t hurt – and you would at least feel healthier for your efforts also.
Baby made from better sperm can only be a healthier baby – the quality is up to the parents BEFORE they conceive. . and Nature is stopping you for a very good reason – not likely to make a great baby so don’t even think about starting it – not even a miscarriage? This is reproductive failure so find out why and FIX IT – don’t pay others to try to dupe nature – she expects survival of the fittest . . and you don’t want a stillbirth – they happen to others – why not you – without proper planning?
Insurance – get well yourself and see that she has easy periods, easy sexuality, easy fertility and easy pregnancies making easy babies.
This Is why 35 years ago my patients attending IVF clinics had a big problem – what to do with the perfect 15 embryos left in the freezer after they have had all the children they want? Do not see even one great one made out cycles these days to put back in to become a child. So why is it that fertility and health are not seen as being hand in hand?
The specialists of ARTIFICIAL reproduction TECHNOLOGY are not weeding out the unhealthy ones as farmers would – as where would the money be then? It is a business model, not an altruistic – best baby possible is surely what you think you are buying?
But your life will never be the same again if you mess up. I know – My story, I myself have a massively brain injured adult child, who was so separately to this, massively vaccine damaged (I chose to give her the MMR after she was nearly out of the autism she had in addition (mercury in my mouth legacy from a tooth capped in 5 months pregnant – bad move!! – heavy metal toxicity went straight to her and where are the warnings in the dental chair for this?) with it when very to the profound brain injury from getting a disease from my body in utero that I did not know I had – so health and well being BEFORE pregnancy is invaluable. See also the role of nutrients and autism.
I, as a therapist then, did not know of the role of Iodine and Zinc and Magnesium in pregnancy – and hence I more than anyone else have the knowledge that will help you NOT go down and similar path to me. Some do. The dud sperm you start with – making babies with IVF that Nature did not want is part of your journey – is a very bad start.
Think – is this the best you want for your children – so desperate to get pregnant – any pregnancy will do? You could change this and go with perfect – and this is where thinking and planning – much like choosing a house site and getting the best architects and workers in – to make your new house – surely the babies you make deserve some of this foresight also?
Why not start as nature intended – be well and have perfect periods, and be the best parents to be BEFORE you try for a ba
by? After all, in generations past the efforts were try to NOT have them . . and they still appeared – why is this? We now have newistractions. Chemicals. Toxins. Caffeine. Alcohol. Electromagnetic radiation. Modern life. Not enough respect for a body and a soul – you can change this – it is not a fast process sometimes, but it gives far better results. Not miscarriages – not failed chemical pregnancies – but real babies in arms to love. ..
Look after your babies before you make them – treat yourself to health first.
Fertility is a measure of health (wellness), also known as ‘Jing’ – what is it?
Help yourself to better health thus better babies – wherever you are in the world. Help is at hand.