Get in baby making shape first
You can change your baby’s future health and existence – simply . .
Learn how here.
Great eggs and plentiful useful sperm make great babies.
Epigenetics are what allows who you could be to be expressed.
And all those coming after you.
Healthier, more robust grand children and their easy lives/fertility also . .
Perhaps start here – decluttering yourself – on all levels
Are you sure you want to make a baby the new or the old way (sex with two healthy parents to be – as has worked till recently? Want to make sure your offspring are as perfect as possible? There is a problem with IVF/ART – not as good babies may result. Maybe back up – don’t go there first – start with nature and see how much better life forever after could be. Start with the right raw ingredients – one healthy mum and one healthy dad – as the levels of plummetting fertility are showing this step is missing . .
‘Like’ Natural Fertility Coach as soon I will be offering a way to help yourself at home with my help – having been working in all aspects of maternity since before IVF happened – I do know a lot that is missing – common sense, truth in all ways to allow well babies, great pregnancies to easily visit you and cheaply – follow Nature . . .
Hence what health decisions you are now making are generational in their effect. Entertaining info here.
Perhaps it is time to look at WHY the babies are not happening without work on your part – and attend to this, rather than pretending any old baby made at great financial expense is worth it? Ring me or make a Skype appointment as I can help you help yourself
Breathing? Yes – the beginning of life – fresh air . . .
Food – fueling who you are to make and presently how you get to this .
Sperm that is inadequate, not moving, hardly there, decrepit, strange looking that are now so ‘normal’ in men’s samples don’t make good babies. Hence the epidemic of ‘infertile’ women.
For far too long the King Henry the VIIIth problem (it is all HER fault) has been prevalent – is NOT about her fertility – but his. I do not see any great sperm tests these days. Even ones that would have made the grade 10 years ago.
What is accepted as “normal” now was completely unacceptable only a few years ago. Why?
Reading this is well worth the effort – as you can see that all around we have why we are not trying to STOP babies happening. As all our forebears did.
Fertility specialists often blame the female partner – she is apparently causing the baby blockage problem by being too fat, too old, too endometrially challenged. If this were true, I would have a heap of great semen results for the men who are NOT DADS whilst their women were this reproductively hopeless – and they don’t exist.
Men who are fertile have babies, and don’t need sperm tests – they get a vasectomy.
In your parents’ day (ask them) babies were conceived at any time of the month. . . any age ..
sex is to make babies.
If it doesn’t – find out why not and fix it. Don’t seek someone to play with your bank account.
It takes two to make a baby – if he is fertile (over 80% looking normal – over 100 million at least as the minimum fertile marker 30+ years ago) babies will happen regardless of how ‘old’, how ‘fat’, how few eggs she supposedly has.
Don’t throw your money away on unnecessary fertility treatments – fertility is all about health and happiness.
Think about it – if she has been on the pill for ages – she has not even been USING her eggs – they are still in suspended hibernation – she just needs to get healthy herself And lose weight … and her middle fat.
These are great ‘ways out’ for hopeless sperm. FIX IT MEN.
How? Start by taking it what should never have been part of your body – not just what is being eaten/drunk but why your body is not in perfect mint condition. Poisons and toxins that are within us . .
Why do you not have 350 million, 95% normal – all rapid swimmers?
As your great grandparents did?
You can do it – get healthy. Exercise daily. Lose the beer gut. Go to bed before 10 pm. Start eating proper food. Vegetables – lots of them. Not a drug company’s apparent male fertility product at great cost from the chemist. Do it yourself through changing your eating choices.
Stop making excuses for your own poor performance in the bedroom. Reliable hard and hot apparatus means more likely, abundant great swimmers – who knew? Any Chinese medical practitioner – not the medicos – do they mention sex? No – yet this is how babies are made . . .
More of it – hot and steamy (ban the bed as a venue) and in all positions – often. She doesn’t feel like it – well – that is half the problem – get her more juiced up – be more attentive – turn off the electronic gadgets. Spend time being with each other. Walking after tea. Relate. Sharing of yourself – your hopes and dreams. Start wooing her again. Time to be a couple. Start touching for wellness, not making babies. Heart singing living. These are all good for gluing a family together.
Have women all of a sudden gotten more fertile to cope with the complete collapse of their men’s fertility?
I have the women who would be pregnant if HE had the semen quality of his father’s generation. Why is no one seeing that 4 % LOOKING normal sperm is rubbish? It is not good enough for a man with 6% normal sperm to think I am ‘picking on him’ and not return to make his health better so his wife can make babies – of COURSE the IVF team will play with the hopeless sperm samples – that is what they do – they don’t send you away to get in baby shape first. . . this is how money, not babies is made. Perhaps backing up and treating your body as though it were a temple may help?
Clean food, early to bed, no chemicals and plenty of water, not substances full of reproductive toxins – caffeine, alcohol, sugar – may help? Can’t hurt – and you would at least feel healthier for your efforts also.
Baby made from better sperm can only be a healthier baby – the quality is up to the parents BEFORE they conceive. . and Nature is stopping you for a very good reason – not likely to make a great baby so don’t even think about starting it – not even a miscarriage? This is reproductive failure so find out why and FIX IT – don’t pay others to try to dupe nature – she expects survival of the fittest . . and you don’t want a stillbirth – they happen to others – why not you – without proper planning?
Insurance – get well yourself and see that she has easy periods, easy sexuality, easy fertility and easy pregnancies making easy babies.
This Is why 20 years ago my patients attending IVF clinics had a big problem – what to do with the perfect 15 embryos left in the freezer after they have had all the children they want? Do not see even one great one made out cycles these days to put back in to become a child. So why is it that fertility and health are not seen as being hand in hand?
The specialists of ARTIFICIAL reproduction TECHNOLOGY are not weeding out the unhealthy ones as farmers would – as where would the money be then? It is a business model, not an altruistic – best baby possible is surely what you think you are buying?
But your life will never be the same again if you mess up. I know – My story, I myself have a massively brain injured adult child, who was so separately to this, massively vaccine damaged (I chose to give her the MMR after she was nearly out of the autism she had in addition (mercury in my mouth legacy from a tooth capped in 5 months pregnant – bad move!! – heavy metal toxicity went straight to her and where are the warnings in the dental chair for this?) with it when very to the profound brain injury from getting a disease from my body in utero that I did not know I had – so health and well being BEFORE pregnancy is invaluable. See also the role of nutrients and autism.
I, as a therapist then, did not know of the role of Iodine and Zinc and Magnesium in pregnancy – and hence I more than anyone else have the knowledge that will help you NOT go down and similar path to me. Some do. The dud sperm you start with – making babies with IVF that Nature did not want is part of your journey – is a very bad start.
Think – is this the best you want for your children – so desperate to get pregnant – any pregnancy will do? You could change this and go with perfect – and this is where thinking and planning – much like choosing a house site and getting the best architects and workers in – to make your new house – surely the babies you make deserve some of this foresight also?
Why not start as nature intended – be well and have perfect periods, and be the best parents to be BEFORE you try for a baby? After all, in generations past the efforts were try to NOT have them . . and they still appeared – why is this? We now have new distractions. Chemicals. Toxins. Caffeine. Alcohol. Electromagnetic radiation. Modern life. Not enough respect for a body and a soul – you can change this – it is not a fast process sometimes, but it gives far better results. Not miscarriages – not failed chemical pregnancies – but real babies in arms to love. ..
Look after your babies before you make them – treat yourself to health first.
Fertility is a measure of health (wellness), also known as ‘Jing’ – what is it?